I guess what it boils down to, is that I do not want to share her yet.
Especially with people who have hurt me recently and out right refused my request for the traditional "baby in" time.
Nearly every culture has a "baby in" time. A time where Mommies and babies are made to be together for a certain number of weeks or months with minimum distractions. Most often this time varies from 4-8 weeks.
In many cultures it is a taboo for anyone but Mommy, Daddy and Midwife to see the baby during this time.
In our culture it is very challenging to even hold people at bay during the immediate postpartum period, non the less in the sacred weeks of restructuring into a larger family unit that follows.